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Bekah Jumps on the Wagon with Others to Express Sorrow towards JaeBum

Koyote’s Bekah confesses through his mini homepage about the issue of innocent JaeBeom leaving 2PM due to the “degrading of  the koreans.”

Bekah had posted a message on his mini homepage on September 9th. He stated, “Just two months ago, these group of people [antis] had came rushing to me, convicting me as some sort of pervert, decides to come again to knock down my freind who is also my dongsaeng.”

Here is the official post:

My teeth simple shakes with chills toward the people who work behind the scenes of a “witch hunt,” murdering others with simply their hands, putting a person in a place where they can’t come back and end up not feel a thing towards them. Mistakes can be made by anyone and especially in the painful and hard stages of teen age years. However, because of this one person’s tackle, one person ends up leaving.

Being a star might seem like a fun and a lucrative job, but however you guys don’t know how much mental and physical pains follows up afterwards. I’m begging that these actions will simply be stopped from now on. For me as a star, I’m not someone who has many fans, or a star that is a big influence to anyone. However, I could be that friend sitting in the corner of the same school and since the situation had been maximized like this, I can have the right to say a word or two.

I do not have a close relationship with this friend [JaeBeom]. We might even end up even having different personalities, but however, few months ago, I have been attacked by the people and I understand how much pain that can cause, because I can relate to that friend’s mind in the airplane, I just wish that things like this would never happen again.

We are not gods. When a nice person gets mad, he/she can display violence. Of course if the same mistakes are made twice, it wouldn’t have been a mistake, but if given a chance to apologize, they could also turn out to be a healthy person. One can believe that I wrote these words on purpose, but since it is my personal thoughts, I don’t care if you guys decide to curse or even terror towards me. However, during that time think about how much of a clean person you are and you are free to choose to point your fingers or show violence towards me. We all know that forgiveness and understanding is the most important thing.

Ji Youn : The basic life line for the stars are fans and support. It is sad to see the situation grow so big that there is no longer a way to go back.

59 Responses

  1. […] up. Other stars have voiced their sadness for the incidents on their minihompy – including Koyote Bekah, Boom, and also 2AM member Jo Kwon. Jo Kwon has posted up a photo which was taken with the 2PM […]

  2. Bekah!! aaaah, such nice words of wisdom!!
    jay, PLEASE COME BACK!! T^T i beg of you!!

  3. I totally agred with Bekah 100%
    Eveyone in the world made mistake..as if the netizens who found Jaebum fault never did any mistake in her/his life…
    Like what Bekah had said..we are not God..we just normal being..so it is a normal thing we do mistake in our life..especially when you in your 20s…
    In my opinion..there will be lots of people will agreed with Bekah…
    Thank you Bekah for your support to Jaebum

  4. Bekah!! His words are just so true and I hope Jay will somehow read his message and know that there are alot of people who supports him!!

  5. BEKAH FTW!

  6. I still remember this story in the Bible when Jesus Christ ask the people who were prosecuting the prostitute to throw stones if they did not do any sins in their life. And one by one they let the rocks go and left the place…

    Thanks Bekah for supporting Jay even if you do not closely know him. I wish other celebs show their support for Jay. I love the line “I don’t care if you guys decide to curse or even terror towards me.” Yeah, take that antis.

  7. well say bekah!

  8. I agree with what Bekah said.
    Antis need to stop ruining others’ lives.
    The message left by Bekah is so touching. T.T

    I’m not even a hottest but i have grown to like them more. I was indifferent n had no fav member.
    However, not so long before this issue broke out, I chose Jay as my fav. Can’t believe he left….T.T
    I can’t cry but my heart is crying river of tears.

  9. Please help Jaebum redeem himself, show your support for Jaebum during this difficult time, and sign a petition of fans supporting a possible foray into the American entertainment industry. It is the only way that he will be able to redeem himself in the Korean public’s eyes. Plus, he has a better chance of achieving something in the US than all the other native-Koreans that have tried before him.

    http://www.petitionspot.com/petitions/supportjaebum

  10. Seriously, if I can, I would personally go to this guy and thank him.

  11. No matter how long he’s been in korea, he would have never been prepared for the intense hate that koreans can produce. He still comes from an American mindset where I’m pretty sure haters in america dont set up petitions asking celebrities to kill themselves and then have over 3000 people actually sign it.

    You just don’t see that kind of stuff in the US. So yeah, maybe it seemed like quitting after 3 days of controversy was rash, it’s definitely justified. Maybe its just not worth it to him to have to endure that much racism and hate, if you can call it that.

  12. i’m happy that a veteran in the kpop scene like bekah from koyote somewhat symphatizes with what jay had been through.
    like what he said, he isn’t an idol but he experienced the pain of having to be harassed by antis.

    antis harassing artists is really getting way out of hand. this has been a problem for years, even resulting in suicides. tsssssss. this is like the dark side of kpop fandom and it should stop.

  13. i totally agree~~
    i didn’t think that this problem becomes bigger
    and bigger T.T
    he’s really talented .
    he should come back to korea ..

    i want NOBODY NOBODY but JAY !

  14. i’m with that guy (whoever he is) totally 101% !!! I WANT MY JAEBEOM BACK WHERE HE BELONG!!! HE WAS BORN TO BE A STAR and those Korean netizens ruined his dream!! he was meat to be on stage…. that’s his life….. i’m sooo truly very sad that he left. i’m praying that he’ll have a more bright future!!!

  15. FUCK YOU ANTIS. GO SHIT YOURSELVES.

  16. lol what a drama queen, now everybody f up because of him…

  17. why not do this kind-of thing when the heat for jaebeom’s comments was on..
    why do it now, when jae left korea already? . . .
    i’m happy and sad…
    happy because lots of stars came out . . .
    but at the same time sad because they are doing this too little too late…

  18. WOW.
    FINALLY. someone who speaks out and reprimands the netizens in a clear and well-thought out way. i’ve been disappointed by the “adults” in korea– even the media, calling him an offender. that’s so ridiculous. i have been wondering when someone would be adult and mature enough to make a public statement that corrects the wrong and the outlandish behavior that’s been done. it’s made me so upset that even the media has painted jaebum as some criminal. thank you, bekah.
    thank you.

  19. I think it’s amazing that a lot of people care about him, even if they dont know him.

    FT Island, Boom, Wild Bunny Prod, Bekah..
    Even non-hottest feel sorry for him.

  20. really, these netizens are getting out of hand….
    why can’t they let the singers that bring entertainment to their lives alone. Everything they do is to please the fans, so the fans shouldn’t criticize them. It’s a give and take relationship. The singers give the fans music, in return, the fans give them love and support.

    Jay, we’ll wait for you. Don’t you worry, you’ll be okay and we’ll always be by your side. JaeBum JJANG!

  21. well said.
    finally someone who speaks up.

  22. I can understand why Korean stars became depressed and suicidal. I agree very much with bekah. I find this really ridiculous

  23. Aww… so sweet
    I swear, I’ve never cried so many times in two days….
    I’ve realize, that this happen in a lapse of 4 days, begin the 4th of december, about something that happen 4 YEARS ago….

    Jae be happy, and relax and calm, enjoy with u family…
    This is just a vacation, we can wait, one month, two months, three months, half a year, a YEAR, we’ll still wait for you to comeback..
    I really hope you can come back, WE HOTTEST would gladly fangirl for you any time…
    WE WILL STILL LOVE U!!!!

  24. i still feel like crying whenever i read this kind of message. On the airplane he must’ve feel a great pain of neglects, shame, and loneliness. I hope he is well with his family and let time heals. I’ll always support jay and i hope he will be better soon. FIGHTING.

  25. It’s just so…sad. Now being away from the internet I was late to this mess, but it hurts, and I’m just in a state of disbelief.
    While I understood why netizens would get mad, I also understood that Jaebum was going through a difficult time. He left his home to an unknown world at a chance of MAYBE being a star, and he did and within a couple of days all of that was just ripped away.
    So few think about the things they say nowadays. Because someone made an irrational call they RUINED this young man’s, that they didn’t even know, life.
    THAT is how quickly fame can disappear.
    I am glad that others are speaking out and supporting him. The best of luck to Jaebum and his future.

  26. I thank Bekah for whatever he’s said. He’s brave enough to challenge those antis, which left me kind of shocked o.o

    Really. Thank you. Really appreciate it especially since he didn’t have any special relationship with Jay ^^

    I don’t know. There are alot more people standing up for Jay now. I feel touched, but deep down inside, Jay’s just gone. He’s already left Korea and I think it’s really kind of late now…

    But still. I hope Jay reads all these. And I hope he realizes that he deserved the second chance that everyone else deserves.And I hope he knows that there are alot of people out there who doesn’t want him to leave. T.T

    Hottests will wait, right?

  27. Couldn’t have said it better!
    thank you Bekah! (:

  28. dispite how muchy emphathy i have for jay for being in this situation, i am also disappointed in him for deciding to leave the group after just 4 days in this situation. he should have taken a vacation to clear his minds and stable his emotions, but leave the group, isn’t that too rush of a decision in such a short time? all waves eventually rides out, so why didn’t he let the whole situation time to die down rather than make such a rush decision in a time of confusion? this makes me wonder if something similar has occurred to him to make this time around a definetly yes to leave korea? second, this is a test of leadership. everyone makes mistakes and even bigger leaders too. but true leaders will bear it and know that in time everything will be forgotten.

    • Please don’t say that, dissapoint bcoz Jay leaves the group after 4 day after the accident..
      We don’t know what is exactly happen there, in Korea..
      How much pain he endures..
      Hearing people saying you should kill yourself for 4 day straight..
      Even if we try too understand how much pain Jay has, we will never understand…

      • Please don’t exagerate. I’m sure JYp and others won’t tell him to kill himself. And is that he only sit in his room and skip meal? How come anybody can tell him to kill himself? Did he have time to surf the internet? watch some youtub? check out some daum fancafe? uhm if that’s the way it is then the sad part and skip meal part are all lies..

    • girl you gotta be the dumbest person alive. you`re disappointed coz he left the group? anyone who have feelings would get hurt if you have an online petition to commit suicide.

      this shit got blown out of proportions that the best decision jay could do is leave. you`re disappointed coz he can`t be a leader? this aint about no leadership or being an idol… this is about a man, who is getting bashed for something he had said years ago. this is about a man whose character was destroyed by a netizen who has no life. this is about a man who has to be tired out of his life being an entertainer, but still endure antis` shit all day. this is about a man who has done something wrong, but is it big? no. is it worth hearing and knowing people speak negatively of him? no. if he cant bear it does that make him less of a leader? absolutely not.

      hes not perfect. no one is. and for you to say shit like `im disappointed`… girl you need a brain.

  29. ====> However, during that time think about how much of a clean person you are and you are free to choose to point your fingers or show violence towards me. We all know that forgiveness and understanding is the most important thing.

    Yes!! I do Agree..

  30. Nobody is a God, to judge nobody.
    The whole world commits errors that makes us human beings.
    But the piece of gossip is simply the worst thing that it did that this error was spreading and taking so big proportions leaving irreversible consequences.
    * * * * *THE ARTISTS (SINGERS, ACTORS, BALLET DANCERS, MODELS) ALSO ARE HUMAN THEY ALSO FEEL AND SUFFER, THEY HAVE FEELINGS.
    I hope that the time should treat the wounds, and make us reflect about this situation.
    And Yes, I know Bekah because I have listened to his music (Koyote) it is a very good music.
    ———-
    My heart is broken, but ——–>>>
    I hope to see Smiling Jay, and I support it in any decision that he takes.

  31. It’s such a shame that people begin to stand up for Jay after he has already left…but anyways, I still appreciate their support ❤ Thank you Bekah.

    • it’s not like they knew he was planning on quitting. a lot of celebs avoid using the internet because of criticism like this. plus most people probably thought Jay could endure the situation or the situation would die out in a few weeks. Also their entertainment companies probably asked them to not add fuel to the fire and risk their own careers. You probably read about how antis bashed wooyoung for defending Jay and they are in the same group so imagine how much hate other celebs would get. i dont think its right how Jay decided to leave the group but he should’ve just went on a vacation.
      i think the whole situation is stupid. really, how do you expect koreans to fully understand to meaning of Jay’s comments. ‘gay’ is an overused word and in his post, the meaning is equivalent to suck/lame. heck i think tons of people in the US has said that the US is stupid/lame/gay/crackpot/etc its just a phase.

  32. i with this Bekah guy that i dont even no him till now
    but what he say so so true and touchin to me

  33. True and noble. Its really great that he did this and will be appreciated by alot of people.

    His popularity also increased alot

    • ???? 100000 years before when the lameass kid was still a kid, this man is already famous for being a 1/3 of Koyote. Don’t have that mindset that evryone is after Jay Park’s popularity..

      • I think Jotham was just commenting that because of this more people are exposed to BekAh’s kind and eloquent nature. I greatly doubt he’s after some kind of popularity by writing this. He’s writing from experience and the heart.

  34. this is sooo touching. This guy has it. He has the right mindset. why couldn’t the idiots who took a simple mistake and made it into something bigger than it needs to be have the right mind set. Karma goes around and comes around.

  35. I know that it would have been good if stars would of done this before Jay left. But come to think of it, the recent scandals haven’t gone this far this quick. Stars didn’t know that in 4 days, a star’s journey would come to an end abruptly. And in the end, it’s Korea’s lost due to several individuals that thought it would be fun to drive a young man to the end of his career. Hopefully in the near future, Jay would be able to come back stronger than ever.

  36. Bekah. ♥.

    HOTTESTS, always keep the faith. (:

  37. we will always here for you Jay!
    heads up
    this very nice of him to wrote this for Jay
    am so sad even though im not Hottest TT.

    • i know what you mean. Ever since i heard about ive been soo sad, even though i’m not a Hottest.

      i love 2PM and Jay. They comepletely won me over with their hilarious personalities.

      we will always be here for you Jay!!

  38. FUCK NETIZENS.. PERIOD !, they got no life.

    • Irony—-You are a netizen too.
      But I see your point.
      F-Antis For me will do.

      • SO does that mean i can say it since i am not a netizen?…just kiddin…/fukk anti ther you go! And those netizen who sign jay suicide petition too….so fukk up i lost my speech to describe them!

  39. true

  40. how noble….
    i was hoping other stars would do this before =[

    • they are advised not to, to prevent taking sides and causing more drama. but im so happy that another person stuck up for jay, even if i don’t know Bekah.

    • who are you to use this tone against him? Be grateful that the guy give a sentence or two about your alread -faded- idol.

      • @Festive: Uh, wtf? He didn’t use any tone. He just hoped more artists would stand up as well.

  41. YES!
    I ALSO AGREE. JAAAAAAAAAAAY~

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